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How to live your best life

Living the best life starts with self-Development skills

Discover how to create yourself by accepting yourself

Make it a great day by choosing that it will be great

Learn how to set your first priority as your top priority

Utilize the empowering resources we have to offer!

Life Coach San Diego

Priority-Driven Life is in the business of personal growth plans, which involve teaching you how to live your best life. 

Do you need life coaching services, an accountability partner, or will our DIY content-rich life coaching formatted website along with practical application tools do the trick? 

Establish your first priority to focus your mind and prepare yourself to read and apply. 

If you are looking for a life coach in the San Diego area, please submit your information in the contact form below, and we will respond promptly to get you on your way to living your best life!

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Self-development skills for living the best life ever

decide Today is amazing BEFORE it happens

It takes skill, focus, and intentionality to live your best life. 

If living your best life came without effort, everyone would be doing it. 

Have you ever wondered how to focus your mind when you don’t know what the focus should be? 

The attempt to focus may have you bouncing down the bunny trail of asking whether the journey to create yourself starts with selling everything, traveling to faraway exotic countries, sitting for hours, and vibrational humming.  

Uh, no.

Maybe you have felt like John.

Day after day, I am tired of hearing all I need is a personal growth plan to change my day. What type of personal growth and development plan will help when I am not interested in doing anything. Somedays, I am blaming day, the weather, the government, my boss, my parents, my friends, or even the poor dog for my lack of personal motivation. There has got to be a better way to create yourself... I need help.
Responsibility Avoidant Sleeping on the Job
John
Needing Motivation

We understand, no matter how many times you read the benefits of positive thinking, nothing shifts…

Nope, you still can’t get yourself off the couch. Ho. Hum. Oh, well…

No motivation can't get off couch

Go ahead and try to motivate me

We have some good news and some better news.

Good news: You have come to the right place.

Better news: STAY ON THE COUCH.

Soul searching you can do from the couch – no distant, faraway exotic land needed.

Are you ready to learn some self-improvement skills, how to focus your mind, and be intentional? If so…

Let’s begin your personal growth by reprogramming your mind and upgrading some habits. 🙂

1. Shift your take on life and feelings

Have you ever noticed how circumstances continue to repeat themselves?

The same issues keep showing up, even after changing friends and moving across the country. 

It happens to all of us until we master life’s lessons, at which point we move on to the next level.

Think of life as a video game. You have skills to acquire along the way to conquer new territory.

Begin to look at life from the standpoint of a wise sage observing yourself.

YOU are who is standing in YOUR way. Are YOU ready for action so you can create YOUR best life?

2. Difficulty and struggle come to help you create yourself

Life is comprised of good days and not-so-good days. And your days – we are guessing – are more not so good.

But wait a minute…

Who told you there were good and bad days?

How can a day be good when at the end of it, you have not evolved?

Or how can a day be bad when good growth has occurred?

What is standing between ho-hum and exceptional?

Is it your mindset, a choice, or a bit of work? Yep, that is it. 

First up the mindset and then choice.

3. Resolve to lose the excuses and start living your best life

Don’t get us wrong: excuses serve us well when we choose not to grow. 

Excuses are used in blaming and justifying a lack of responsibility – that is until you choose to stop using excuses.

When you need to whine and cry and complain do it.

Set the timer and give yourself 5 minutes for a pity party. Scream, punch the air, drop to the ground and thrash about in a real live adult temper tantrum.  When the buzzer rings, be done.

Clean the slate, activate belief, start again, and take action.

Answer the following questions:

        1. What do YOU want? I don’t know, it is called an intellectual dodge. Answering will help you.

        2. Why do YOU want it? Write down the first reason that comes to mind.

        3. Who will YOU ask for help?  Avoid, I don’t know. Jot down the first name that comes to mind.

        4. When are YOU willing to take action? Immediately – is a perfect answer.

4. Put aside wondering what self-motivation is and start living your best life

We were created to live in a community. Needing one another is not a sign of weakness but strength. 

Instead of self-motivation, think about what other motivation can do for you.

If you were surrounded by a group of helpful, encouraging, and uplifting people who were happy with life, would you want to leave the group?

Of course not.

Begin to surround yourself with like-minded people. 

We are here to help you succeed.

The resources we have created are also here to walk beside you to

INSPIRE new thought patterns
ACTIVATE happiness
DEVELOP your character
CREATE your best life

Believe all things are possible, even when life does not appear to be heading in the direction you desire.

Character Building

Focus your mind on
developing these three character traits

Make it a great day by switching yourself and build character traits: Integrity, confidenCE, and determination.

Where can I step up my level of INTEGRITY?

Idea: Acknowledge times you compromised your INTEGRITY

INTEGRITY: I live an upright life
pg 68 in the daily Planner

The strength of a nation derives from the integrity of the home. --Confucius

With who can I practice having more CONFIDENCE today?

Idea: Embrace the fact that you are more than amazing

CONFIDENT: I am Self-Assured
pg 48 in the daily Planner

Go confidently in the direction of your dreams! Live the life you've imagined. -Henry David Thoreau

Create Your Best Life

How can I be more DETERMINED in my actions today?

Idea: Do the thing you keep putting off

DETERMINED: I am Self-Motivated
pg 56 in the daily Planner

The difference between impossible and possible lies in you. --Sharon Love

Focus your mind with daily character trait training found in the Lifestyle Planner. 
Practical Application: Lifestyle Planner

Set your FIRST priority as your TOP priority

Create your best life ever, Work 90-Minutes on Your Top Priority

Set as your first priority your top priority
My Top Priority is Motivation Fuel
Daily Lifestyle planner
Remove the dust cover and begin.
self improvement planner

Creating your best life involves honoring your preferences by choosing WHAT the essential thing to do today is.

Setting priorities in life is an intentional act of loving yourself

Priority means being regarded or treated as more important. 

Set Your Top Priority for today as the…

  • One thing that would make your life easier and more enjoyable or…
  • One task you have been putting off or…
  • A project that continues to revisit your mind

Write down your top priority committing to working on the task for 90-minutes.

Afterward, record how it felt to do so.

Repeat the next day. And the day after that…

You may find you won’t need self-motivation to get you moving as PROGRESS fuels your drive towards creating a great life.

Meet Ms. Love

My Priorities in Life Lead to Joy

The Relatable Life of Ms. Love

  1. Afraid? Alone? Depressed? Oh yes
  2. I wanted to be no one. I had no dreams. Now I am changing the world
  3. Saw the positive side of the struggle
  4. Displaced homemaker with two teenagers
  5. 43 years old with no work experience
  6. No formal education
  7. A brilliant mind filled with curiosity
  8. Confident all the no’s in life lead to a yes
  9. Choose to say no to average and yes to the best
  10. My creativity originates in peace, calm, and quiet
  11. Living in the best of times motivated by love
Overcome Adversities in Life

You can improve personality and build character

It's Time to stop researching and start doing

We advise you to start with the daily Planner. Use it for 90 days. 

When the 90 days are over, marvel at holding a piece of your legacy in your hands. 

If you applied your best effort, you would look back at how far you have come and be amazed.

If you didn’t apply your best effort, no worries, order another Planner and do the 90 days again. 

If you are ready for blown out of the water, besides yourself extraordinary life, use this Planner for the next 90 days.

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Get to Know Others

Learning How to Make Today a Great Day

We all lose Motivation at one time or another
Take a Nap, clear the slate, and start again

Kim says your best life is possible with a Priority-Driven Life

Kimberly Y. – Wellness and Transformation Coach

Ms. Love is a bright light in the world, transforming the atmosphere with her presence. Sharon possesses a deep understanding that the power behind her is more significant than any obstacle in front. This knowledge allows her to win in life. She imparts this overcoming, winning attitude to everyone she meets. You will gain momentum in your life with Sharon.

Cecil's first priority is to make God his top priority

Cecil P. – Pastor

Ms. Love is influential. She allows the trials and sufferings to help define her character, making her better and not bitter. Her tenderness of heart provides mercy and grace to follow her life. Sharon’s wisdom and insight are from a heavenly perspective. You will be encouraged, inspired, and blessed to know her.

Christi's positive mental attitude thanks to Priority-Driven Life

Christie P. – CPA

The smile on my face and the happiness in my heart stems from the unbelievable redirection of my life. My life is changed, thanks to Ms. Love’s messages and her love. I have never known a person so insightful. Following Ms. Love will bless your life, as it has mine. Love transforms my day and my focus. My attitude becomes more positive and productive.

Remain Connected

Never give up. Focus your mind on how to live your best life. To make it a great day – choose to do so. remember this San Diego life coach says

Life is hard, but God is good.

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